Saturday, March 21, 2009

My Neighbors Keeper


I live in Spring Court, which is a small Senior Citizen Complex in Olean, New York. I am one of the younger people there. The rest are mostly women in their late 80's. Housing has this lovely habit of springing inspections on us. So a little over a year ago, I decided that I would help Julia by cleaning her kitchen every Friday. She can't see, and has two daughters that are busy with their own lives and can't help her. Then after a bit , I took over her medicines. I put them in a daily holder so she can take them without having to get them out of the bottle. Otherwise, she wouldn't take them like she should. In all this time, I have not missed a Friday, except once when she went to the hospital over the weekend, once when she took a trip down south to see her son and one weekend when I was sick. Although, I was able to go to the apartment and do her meds that day anyways. I fully enjoy the time spent doing the job, although it doesn't take me long.

Sister Rose Lafrenz, Olean Ward

Friday, March 20, 2009

Setting the Example

At some point every day , there is an act of service being done somewhere in the world and thank goodness for that! Some people like to be “served” while others enjoy being the “server”. While both are needed in our crazy busy world, I prefer, for many reasons, to be the server.

Recently, I have had to face some unexpected health issues and the word “blindsided” does not even begin to describe the feelings this new information has introduced into mine and my families lives! As I flip-flop between feelings of self-pity and depression versus worthlessness and little to no hope, I try to grab onto that very thin string of love that my Heavenly Father has for me. Of this I have no doubt…so in order to pull myself out of the abyss of sadness that I feel on an almost daily basis, I do the only thing that I know will benefit myself and others. That is to lose my thoughts and myself in the act of service! By doing for someone else, I am also doing for myself, so serving is really a two-fold mission for me and my family . There is no better medicine or therapy!

At this point in our lives we still have two of our four children at home. My son is 15 and my daughter is 13…aahhh-teenagers!! Getting them to give freely of their precious time can be a challenge to say the least. Besides doing service projects for Young Womens and Young Mens, Relief Society, Boy Scouts, the local Y.M.C.A. and a Boy Scout camp close our home, well our kids tend to feel very “put upon” to say the least!!! Whenever the words service project come up it is usually followed by some very loud groaning and complaining. So how do we make it “FUN”? well I don’t think fun ever springs to mind but I do know that when my children are able to see a calming difference come over their mother when she is in the midst of serving or talking about the joys of helping others they are affected by that. They are able to see how both sides benefit from the blessings of serving. There is no better way than to be an example!

Anonymous

Saturday, March 7, 2009

Warren Baskets - Service In Our Midst


Feedback from a Sister who delivered baskets:

As I delivered the baskets on Sunday the sisters were so happy to be thought of. I truly felt that it was an uplift to their week and a testimony to them that we care about them. It is always an awesome feeling to be an instrument in the Lord's hands in giving service to others.

Jamestown Baskets - Service In Our Midst


Response from Sisters who received a basket:

Please extend my thanks to the R.S. Sisters for the surprise package of "goodies". It was so thoughtful. *D* and I had a "cookie and milk party" Sunday afternoon. The cards were especially nice and it was like an early birthday gift. I really love you all so much and miss being with you especially on the special occasions.
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she was thrilled with her amazing basket...she loved it and had tears...

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Wow, I didn't know I would get a basket. How neat and lovely and surprising that was and is.. Thank you so much for the idea, as it sure has lifted my spirit to no end. In fact, going to have a roll for my dinner tonight. Not eating much, so that will do me up fine and dandy right now. Just fun finding the goodies in there... Inspired, I would say.

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Feedback from a Sister who delivered baskets:

As I delivered the first basket it was to a dear 90 year old sister, that used to play piano in Primary and Sacrament meeting for years, until she became too sick to attend church. When we arrived, her husband was a bit beside himself, so my mother talked to him and calmed him down, while I had the sad pleasure of holding her hand and telling her how beautiful she was, as she lay in bed unable to sit up any more and in so much pain that she hurt when you touched her. I don't think she cared so much about the basket in her sadden state, so maybe the delivery was for me. I think I was sent to see what condition this family was in. Maybe that basket will be for her husband to cheer him up.. he's been taking care of her day and night. The sisters and brethren in the ward began to take charge , and within the week this sister was taken to the hospital and it was found out she had a broken hip and wrist.... she was operated on and she is doing much better now... it all started with the basket...

The second basket went to a single sister in our ward with two daughters, one just about ready to go into YW and one just out of YW, that I had tried to re-activate while I was in the YW presidency. It was good to see the whole family and they made me feel right at home with big hug from each. They were grateful for being thought of.

The third basket went to another special sister in our ward, who I used to pick up for church the first year she joined the church. She is a very special lady and stood in Relief Society on Sunday to thank us publicly for the basket. She also told us she needed our prayers for her grandson, Jace, whose heart was not working properly. We told her we would and we would also add his name to the prayer rolls in the Temple. We didn't know that he was sick, but we knew we wanted to give her a basket to let her know how much she meant to us. There were several bags of baked good left over, and when I delivered her basket, I gave some to her grandchildren that live with her. (I didn't want them to eat up all of hers, and now she doesn't have to share..ha ha)
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I had the honor of taking one to Beverly Hallowell. She was very sick, but she told me that now she knew the sisters loved her. My heart jumped a beat just to know she knew that. She enjoyed the food with her daughter, Nora. This sister died three weeks later.
Sister Carrol Shephard, Jamestown Ward
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I delivered my basket to LB. She was receptive, very happy and surprised to receive the basket. She took each item out and looked at everything. I had a nice visit with L., her daughter and the dogs. She's been having a hard time with her back since her car accident. She said she would have to come to church to thank the sisters in person for the lovely basket which she really enjoyed. She appears to be a happy, gregarious sister. She's fun with a good sense of humor.

Sister Eunice Benson, Jamestown Ward

Erie 1st Ward Baskets - Service In Our Midst


Erie 2nd Ward Baskets - Service In Our Midst


Meadville Baskets - Service In Our Midst


Comments from one Sister who received a basket:

Little *M* was delighted with her book. She is in Kindergarten and already reads some, and took it with her to wherever she was spending the evening.


Fredonia Baskets - Service In Our Midst


Olean Baskets - Service In Our Midst


Franklin Ward Baskets


Service In Our Midst

"What a wonderful day. It fills my heart to know that we are working together for such a nice cause. You truly feel the spirit among the sisters. 'Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me'. Everything was wonderful. I think with winter ending, this was such an uplifting day. "

Heading to Heritage Park Nursing Home





"The Event was great and everyone just loved it..." ~ Beth Ramm, Fredonia Branch

Baskets for Young Women

Filling the Baskets







Nursing Home


St. Susan's Center








St. Susan's Center Chemo Caps
Bed Pockets
Bed Pockets
Rice Socks
Chemo Caps
Chemo Caps
Chicken Noodle Soup
Baked Goods
Baked Goods
Chicken Noodle Soup
Greeting Cards
Quote Books
Quote Books
Squares to be donated to Roswell Park Cancer Center
Scarves and Hats
Lap Quilts
Socks
Walker Bags
Chemo Caps
Greeting Cards
"This experience today has filled my heart and spirit with goodness. To be around so many of our sisters and perform good works. To join our efforts together for the benefit of someone else….even though we don’t know whom it will help. This is what it means to be a Latter-Day Saint Lady….and try to understand how our Savior could do so much for us…..We are making this a reality today."